I have a young Swedish friend who lives in London. When I was still living in London and we used to meet up we always met up for a drink, but most of the times we had two, three or four.
My friend has just been visiting Stockholm and in his first text to me he asked: do you want to meet up for fika?
So when my Swedish friend and I met up in Stockholm, it wasn’t to get drunk on colourful cocktails, it was to share a pot of tea. It was the first time we ever had fika together. A milestone in both our lives!
Fika is a very big thing in Sweden. There is no English word for fika. Fika is the verb that describes when you go to a café, sit down for a couple of hours with your friends, drink coffee/tea/soft drink, eat cake/cookie and have a lovely relaxed time.
There is a group in the Swedish society called “lattemammor*”. This is when mums with their babies meet up for a fika.
You will also have fika once or twice, sometimes schedule, at work to break up your day. If you are lucky, your office might have a dedicated corner with a few armchairs and table for you to have your fika. Swedes calls this fika corners.
Swedish streets are full of cafes which are open late but pubs with carpets are a rarity.
In England everyone knows where their local (pub) is. If you asked me now I wouldn’t be able to tell you where the nearest pub is. To be honest it would be very far away and include a tube ride and a bit of a walk. Swedes don’t really do pubs. If it is Friday we might go to a trendy bar after work for a drink. On Saturdays we meet up at home to drink wine we brought with us.
Alcohol is very expensive in Sweden so the trick is to have a pre-party at home and get drunk before you go out, so you don’t need to buy drinks at the bar. This might be the reason why we don’t socialise in pubs, we simply can’t afford it. Would you pay £5 for a pint of beer?
I’ve been doing a lot of fika since I got back to Sweden but I haven’t once been to a pub or a bar.
*mums that drink café au latte in groups